Nick Cannon Pens An Open Letter To Amanda Bynes

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A few weeks ago, Nick Cannon revealed that he would be willing to record new music with Amanda Bynes if she decides to move forward with the production of that rap album that she’s been talking about. But, in the time since Amanda started talking about her new career in music and Nick offered his assistance, she was hospitalized in a mental hospital for evaluation. Today, we get to read an open letter that Nick wrote to Amanda that he published on his official website. Nick and Amanda go way back to their days as Nickelodeon TV co-stars on All That so these two have a history. Click below to read the long but very heartfelt letter that Nick wrote to his friend Amanda in her time of need.

As we all know I do interviews every single day about all my various projects, whether promoting AGT, Wild’N Out, my album, my stand-up special, NCredible consumer products, and various philanthropic and charitable efforts. Usually during these interviews I am consistently questioned about my wife, my kids, and my health and I happily answer them all. But as of lately I have been hit with an onslaught of questions about someone I consider family, someone I watched grow up, and someone I genuinely feel is one of the most pleasant human beings I have had the pleasure of meeting, Amanda Bynes.

The questions have ranged from, “Have you spoken to Amanda” to “Are you working on her rap album”. Sometimes I would answer in a playful humorous manner and sometimes I would brush it off as another Pop culture topic that a reporter was trying to retrieve a sound bite for. But after recent events of Amanda being admitted under psychiatric care and reported as 5150, I see this as no laughing matter. I tweeted a few weeks about how the entertainment industry just consumes people and spits them out like flavorless bubblegum. A few chews of enjoyment then they’re under a city bus bench. Don’t get me wrong this is not a pity for the popular statement. I am always the first to say that fame and entertainment is one of the best and easiest occupations to ever have, but one must know how to navigate through the matrix or you may find yourself in a very dark hole. When a person is told all of their life that they are awesome, the best, the greatest and they are catered to every moment of the day. Imagine being the breadwinner in your household before you can even drive. Imagine you parents, teachers, and employers NEVER telling you NO. Anything you ask for or want, the world gives you, at some point you are bound to self-destruct. I call this “access to excess”. I’ve seen it happen to many of my friends and colleagues young and old. It goes back to that old saying; “Too much of anything is bad for anyone”. Whether it’s fame, money, sex, drugs, attention. It’s all a dangerous addiction. When there is no balance in your life a person will always become victim to their reality or lack thereof. The question is, when this destruction occurs, who is there to help put back the pieces. What do you do when you have no solid support system? When you feel like your friends are talking behind your back. When you feel like your co-workers are jealous and out to competitively sabotage you. When you feel your family has turned your back on you. When you feel like you parents have a conditional appreciation for you and only really love your money. You find yourself alone in that dark hole. Then you have to rely on your own devices once again in this vulnerable state. You become paranoid, frantic, manic, irrational because you can bounce your thoughts or ideas off of anyone anymore. Your reality no longer allows you to reason with the world, so you try to break through to get back to what you think is common ground. You are either trying to get back “hot” again or just searching for that adulation that you once received daily from the masses. Then enters the media, or what I like to call the ultimate magnifier. It’s like if you have a delicate piece of tissue under the sun, that tissue is under INTENSE heat with nowhere to escape but once you place a magnifying glass over that tissue, it’s bound to instantly burn up in flames. This is what I believe happens to many people in the public eye and we all sit back and judge these people for our own entertainment. We say things like, ” I’m glad I’m not famous “, “Celebrities are Crazy”, “See what fame and money does to people”. And most of the time your assumptions and accusations maybe accurate but also inappropriate. No one on this planet needs to be judged or even has the right to judge. We are all equal and we all have our downfalls, fame or no fame. Money or no money. Life is hard for everyone in some since. And we need each other to in times of despair. No one can make it through anything alone. So I ask people who are quick to judge, tweet, report, or comment to ask yourself; what if that person was my sister? My brother? My Mother? Or me? What then would I say? In the words of the great poet and artist Bill Withers, “Sometimes in our lives We all have pain, we all have sorrow”. We all end up alone in that dark hole at some point in our lives and if you don’t have a foundation of friends and family to help bring you up and out it makes that journey long and detrimental. So I say to my sister Amanda Bynes you’re not alone. I’m here for you. I understand. I care and I appreciate you, because that’s what family does and that’s what family is for. I also extend this to anyone else in my life, past or present that may find themselves in hard times. I’m here! Call me! Because I truly believe, the hand you’re helping up today may be the one you’re reaching for tomorrow. So not to be all cheesy and over sentimental but I got to end this with the ingenious Wither’s lyrics “Lean on me when you’re not strong and I’ll be your friend, I’ll help you carry on. For it won’t be long until I’ll need somebody to lean on.”

This is so great … and in my non-expert opinion, this is the kind of love and support that Amanda needs in her life right now. Whatever is going on with her, whether her behavior is the cause of things she can control or NOT control, it seems obvious to me that she has been in desperate need of people in her life that care about her. Whether or not Nick can truly be an influence on her life, it’s important for her to know that he’s there for her. If the reports are to be believed, then Amanda’s odd behavior is the cause of mental instability and it sounds like she is finally getting better now that she is in the care of doctors:

Amanda Bynes is doing remarkably better … she’s stabilized, not hearing voices and it’s all because of a cocktail … TMZ has learned. Sources familiar with the situation tell TMZ … doctors at the psychiatric hospital where she’s being held have given her a combination of meds — referred to as a cocktail — to control what appears to be schizophrenia. Our sources say Amanda responded quickly and dramatically. We’re told in the last 3 days, Amanda has stopped talking to herself and stopped insulting people. To the contrary, we’re told she’s become downright polite, even saying “please” and “thank you.” She has shown no signs of violence. The progress is all the more stunning because these cocktails are notoriously difficult to gauge — getting the right combination of meds with the right doses is something of a crap shoot. Our sources say the meds take 7 to 10 days to fully kick in, so they’re not declaring victory yet, but they’re optimistic.

We won’t know for sure what is going on until we hear something official from Amanda herself, which might never happen. BUT, if her behavior changes once she is released from the hospital and into the care of her family, then we can surmise that her mental health is under control. No matter what, it’s nice to know that Nick is offering his support in this way. All it takes it the loving hand of a close friend to make all the difference in a person’s life. If Nick can be that person for Amanda, then her future health looks to be in good shape.

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  • Jake

    While it’s good that Nick is going to be there for Amanda, I just kind of feel like he is looking for publicity with this letter. He has been talking about Amanda for a while — whether joking or serious, who knows now — about producing her album, that she was fine, etc. So my question is was he he actually there for her when she was going through all of this? Was he trying to be there and she wouldn’t let him? I dunno, there’s just something off about the letter to me.

    • Karen

      I thought I might feel the same — that this should be a private letter, but afterward I kind of felt it might have been good to make it public. It might help humanize Amanda to the public and that might prevent some of the negative attention that could inhibit her recovery (once she’s out of the hospital). It’s more of a letter to the public than to her. But I don’t follow Nick Cannon, so these are the only comments I’ve seen from him on Amanda (or anything else).

  • Alicia Mayo-White

    “doctors at the psychiatric hospital where she’s being held have given her a combination of meds — referred to as a cocktail”

    ummmmmm…. for realz??? Let’s drug the sh*t outta her and see what works? I hope this isn’t an accurate reporting. I know she isn’t a technically a musician, but Amanda could easily end up joining the “27 club” this way.

    • Vicky

      If it’s true that she has schizophrenia, then she will need to be on medication for the remainder of her life. Growing up a friend of mine starting acting really really strange out of the blue, always worried someone was watching him, etc, and it got progressively worse until he was a major danger to himself and others. Now, with the help of medication, he lives a fairly normal life. She will NOT beat this without the help of medication.

    • Karen

      I have no idea if this reporting is accurate, but I do know that with medications to treat mental illness, it often really is a trial and error thing. People can respond very differently to the same medications, combinations of medications, and dosages. And some medication takes a long time to take full effect — 4-6 weeks in some instances. And then there are side effects, which also must be managed. If they are not tolerable, then the medication has to be switched.

  • martin

    I hate how her medical situation is being leaked left and right…we don’t need to know her business just need to know taht she’s doing well. Yeesh

  • Lauren xx

    I’m skeptical of all of this leaked information. A locked ward is a locked ward, I don’t see how any accurate information is getting out. It could very well be some low paid person with a menial job who happens to work at the hospital she’s admitted to selling lies to make a quick buck. I’m taking any “details” being published with a grain of salt.

  • helen

    Nick Cannon just gained some respect from me with this. I really hope he’s not doing it just for publicity.

  • Luna

    Mariah married a good man! Whether it is for publicity or not, I can feel the sincereity in the letter. I don’t follow her news but Nick’s comment about “What if that was your sister? Your mother?” etc made me think. If it was someone that I cared about deeply, I would go out there and kill everyone who judged and made fun of the affected person. I could see where he is coming from.

  • Cathy

    Maybe it’s just me but I feel like he was talking about someone else cough http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2KFRdWch9gw cough. Or maybe open letters just rub me the wrong way.