RadarOnline is reporting today that there is a lot of movement on the Sandra Bullock/Jesse James front … movement that could mean the official end of the couple’s marriage. According to the site, Sandra has finally decided to initiate divorce proceedings and soon-to-be ex-hubby Jesse James is not happy about it:

Sandra Bullock has prepared divorce papers, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively. The Oscar-winning star is ready to proceed against husband Jesse James in the wake of his cheating scandal. Jesse has recently been linked to four other women and as RadarOnline.com first reported, he confessed to Sandra that there were seven other women during their marriage. He checked into Sierra Tucson in Arizona to receive treatment for sex addiction, as reported exclusively by RadarOnline.com. But Sandra never asked him to get help, and she is still reeling from the fact that he habitually cheated on her throughout the marriage, sources tell RadarOnline.com. She’s been through stages of shock and anger and has been deliberating her next move according a source close to the situation. Things got worse in the last few days when Jesse left rehab after Sandra wouldn’t take one of his phone calls. She is surrounded by security and is concerned that he will try to get face to face with her. “Her attitude toward Jesse hasn’t softened since she found out he was cheating on her,” the source said. “She’s been betrayed and cheated on and she’s not getting over that.” Jesse’s lawyer described him as a “broken man” who desperately wants to put his marriage back together.

Because Sandra would not reportedly have any contact with Jesse while he was in rehab, he decided to quit and leave the facility. Radar also reports that because of the couple’s ironclad prenuptial agreement, Jesse will walk away from his marriage to Sandra with NOTHING … as it should be. Here’s a run down of all of these developments:

Jesse James bolted from Sierra Tucson rehab after Sandra Bullock refused to take his phone call, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively. Jesse desperately wants to put the marriage back together and his lawyer recently described him as a “broken man.” He went into rehab for sex addiction treatment on his own, without Sandra requesting he get help. But when she refused to take his call, he took off, a source familiar with the situation told RadarOnline.com exclusively. And that has Bullock worried – because she doesn’t want to see him and she doesn’t want him trying to get face-to-face. But Bullock has a top security company, the source said, and it would be very difficult for James to get near her if she doesn’t want him around … Star Magazine first reported Jesse left rehab and was staying with a friend. RadarOnline.com learned the trigger that caused Jesse to go AWOL was his inability to get Sandra to do what he wants.

Regarding the prenup:

Sandra Bullock and Jesse James have a prenuptial agreement that specifies he gets no money in a divorce if he cheats during the marriage, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively. While James is financially successful on his own, Bullock is Hollywood’s top actress after her Oscar victory and commands top paychecks. Her fortune is far bigger than his, sources tell RadarOnline.com. “If she divorces Jesse and proves he was cheating, which won’t be hard, Sandra won’t have to pay Jesse anything,” a source familiar with the situation told RadarOnline.com. As RadarOnline.com was first to report, Jesse has already privately confessed his infidelity to Sandra. He has been linked to four women and told his wife that there are seven women in total.

While we should deffo take all of this information with a huge grain of salt, I suspect there is some truth in all of this. I cannot imagine a scenario where Sandra would take Jesse back. He doesn’t strike me as the sort of person who would stay committed to a rehab program so it also makes sense that he would quit treatment as soon as he realized it wasn’t scoring him any points with his estranged wife. As difficult as this whole mess is, I know that Sandra Bullock will be fine. She just needs to take the first steps to take control of her future. I really feel for her in all of this. But, again, I know she will be just fine.

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