Mar 29, 2010
Ricky Martin Comes Out Of The Closet
"I am proud to say that I am a ... homosexual man"

Ricky Martin, Latin popstar, actor and father of twins, has today confirmed long-running rumors that he is a gay man. On his personal blog on his official website, Ricky opens up about his decision to announce to the world that he is a “proud … homosexual man”. I, for one, am thrilled!! Anytime a person finds the strength within themselves to open up about something so personal on a large public scale there is much cause for celebration! Here is the full text of Ricky‘s blog announcement:

A few months ago I decided to write my memoirs, a project I knew was going to bring me closer to an amazing turning point in my life. From the moment I wrote the first phrase I was sure the book was the tool that was going to help me free myself from things I was carrying within me for a long time. Things that were too heavy for me to keep inside. Writing this account of my life, I got very close to my truth. And thisis something worth celebrating. For many years, there has been only one place where I am in touch with my emotions fearlessly and that’s the stage. Being on stage fills my soul in many ways, almost completely. It’s my vice. The music, the lights and the roar of the audience are elements that make me feel capable of anything. This rush of adrenaline is incredibly addictive. I don’t ever want to stop feeling these emotions. But it is serenity that brings me to where I’m at right now. An amazing emotional place of comprehension, reflection and enlightenment. At this moment I’m feeling the same freedom I usually feel only on stage, without a doubt, I need to share. Many people told me: “Ricky it’s not important”, “it’s not worth it”, “all the years you’ve worked and everything you’ve built will collapse”, “many people in the world are not ready to accept your truth, your reality, your nature”. Because all this advice came from people who I love dearly, I decided to move on with my life not sharing with the world my entire truth. Allowing myself to be seduced by fear and insecurity became a self-fulfilling prophecy of sabotage. Today I take full responsibility for my decisions and my actions.

Ricky‘s blogpost announcement continues, after the jump …

If someone asked me today, “Ricky, what are you afraid of?” I would answer “the blood that runs through the streets of countries at war…child slavery, terrorism…the cynicism of some people in positions of power, the misinterpretation of faith.” But fear of my truth? Not at all! On the contrary, It fills me with strength and courage. This is just what I need especially now that I am the father of two beautiful boys that are so full of light and who with their outlook teach me new things every day. To keep living as I did up until today would be to indirectly diminish the glow that my kids where born with. Enough is enough. This has to change. This was not supposed to happen 5 or 10 years ago, it is supposed to happen now. Today is my day, this is my time, and this is my moment. These years in silence and reflection made me stronger and reminded me that acceptance has to come from within and that this kind of truth gives me the power to conquer emotions I didn’t even know existed. What will happen from now on? It doesn’t matter. I can only focus on what’s happening to me in this moment. The word “happiness” takes on a new meaning for me as of today. It has been a very intense process. Every word that I write in this letter is born out of love, acceptance, detachment and real contentment. Writing this is a solid step towards my inner peace and vital part of my evolution.

I am proud to say that I am a fortunate homosexual man. I am very blessed to be who I am.

RM

This is just fantastic news!! I am so happy for Ricky. I know he will be much happier being open and honest about who he is … surely, his sons will benefit from his decision to come out. Secrets can be very harmful … teaching his sons that being proud of who you are is a very valuable lesson that will serve them well as they grow and mature. Well done, Ricky!! You have legions of people supporting your decision to come out :) Woot!!

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  1. Janelle says:

    I was watching la vida loca yesterday and I’m not surprised the women of the late nineties were swooned into believing the straight-promotion for him. He has a VERY charming smile :) VERY happy for him that he is finally comfortable enough to come out. He has balls for coming out as a Latino man. <3

  2. A says:

    I’m not surprised whatsoever.
    Good for him that he finally decided to get comfortable with who he really is!

  3. Sharon says:

    I had no idea that he hadn’t already came out.

  4. Mitch says:

    Hi Ricky! Im a big fan from Malaysia and I may be someone who you will never known exist but you are my idols forever…:)

    God blessed you Ricky!

  5. Chelsea Leong says:

    I am a mother of one and I’ve never bought Ricky’s albums before, but I shall from now support his music. I shall get myself my first Ricky Martin album. I think it’s important that people don’t live a lie and although it took a long time, what’s important is that Ricky has finally done the right thing. Like what he says about fighting hate crime and promoting tolerance too. The celebrity world can do with more positive role models because unfortunately the young these days worship celebrities. Way to go, Ricky!

  6. emptyaddy says:

    Ricky Martin is gay. Only those confused that it’s 1999 care. Next.

  7. Roger says:

    Who’s next?Matt Damon? :P

  8. Roger says:

    Ben Affleck?

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  10. loulou says:

    I’m happy for him. I love what he had to say about revealing the truth and setting himself free. There are a lot of positive messages there. I hope people pay attention to those instead.

  11. SomeGuy says:

    I know he just came out of the closet, but maybe someone should have told him a long time ago that the closet door was standing wide open.

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