Another Abusive & Racist Mel Gibson Recording Has Been Released


In what is becoming a sad daily occurrence, RadarOnline has released another audio recording that features actor Mel Gibson hurling extremely abusive and racist comments at his estranged babymama Oksana Grigorieva. Over the weekend a first recording was released that featured Gibson verbally attacking Grigorieva with heavily racist language and yesterday another recording was released that included even MORE abusive and threatening language. Today yet another tape has been released where Gibson refers to Grigorieva as a “whore” and refers to one of the couple’s Latina employees as a “wetback”. Here are the sad yet no-longer-shocking deets of this new recording:

Mel Gibson is caught using yet another ethnic slur while going on a crazed rampage on new audio exclusively obtained and released by During a bitter argument with Oksana Grigorieva, the mother of his eight-month-old daughter Lucia, the embattled actor refers to a Latino worker as a “wetback” … “You’re a f*cking mentally deprived idiot,” Mel screams at one point. “You’re a f*cking using whore…I own you,” he rages. ”You don’t count.” Gibson argues with Grigorieva over someone who works at both their houses, and insists that the woman can work only at his house now. When Oksana says that she needs the worker because she has the baby, Mel explodes and calls the woman a “wetback.” The star is clearly heard on audio saying, “I will fire (name omitted) if she’s at your house. I will make it known and fire her. I’ll report her to the f *cking people that take f *cking money from the wetbacks, ok?” Toward the end of the tape Mel drops a strong hint that despite the tens of millions of dollars he’s made, he may be having financial problems. “I’m paying my tax money instead of the credit card (bill). Don’t you get it?!” he screams … “You made me moneyless.”

You can read more about this latest recording and find out how Oksana fought back against Mel’s abuse, after the jump …

Oksana tells Mel. “I used to have hundred thousand dollars a year when you met me. You took me, you possessed me. Everything I am you own me with my liver and my kidneys and my thoughts and my soul. Everything! My career, whatever it is. Pathetic career. Whatever it is, it’s yours. You control me like marionette. I don’t belong to myself, only to you. I can’t do anything and I walk on eggshells always with you! Mel, whose profane outbursts have shocked America, answers her: That’s because you’re a f *cking using whore! Now, I own you.” As they continue to argue, Mel loses control, screaming “f*ck you. You’re a f*cking whore.” He also accuses her of cheating. When Oksana tells Mel, “I’ve given you everything. I’ve been your woman. I’ve given you a child,” he simply explodes. “You would have done it for any f*cking (person),” Mel screams. “You probably f*cked (name omitted). I know you did.” The tape was recorded this year by Oksana. She told sources that she was scared for her life because Mel threatened to kill her. has released audio containing two death threats from Mel to Oksana … She says: “I’ve never had a bad word said about me in entire life. And then you’re telling me you’re taking away whatever pennies you’ve given me? I don’t have anything because I’ve given you my life. Three years now!” But Mel rages: “I gave you everything. Don’t you dare f*cking complain to me! I don’t f*ckin’ hear you! You don’t f *cking count! You’re a f*cking using whore!” … Oksana fights back, telling him he’s mentally ill and pointing out that she has no claim to his assets, saying “I’m not the whore and I’m not the bitch and I’m not the c*nt and I’m not the user and I’m not the thief and all those words. And I’m not a liar. All this, all this lies. All this lies. I’m not a whore or c*nt or thief or prostitute or anything that you call me. I’m not a user. I’m not a gold digger. I don’t have any money and no property assigned to me. That’s a gold digger for you? Are you insane? Yes, you are of course. We can hear that because you’re screaming.” … the ugliest and most vitriolic exchange is comes toward the end of the conversation when Mel launches into another rant and tells Oksana: “you f *ckin’ ignorant bitch?! I don’t understand you! You’re saying stupid sh*t! How dare you f *cking even insult me with some of the stupid reasoning you have? Your logic sucks, because you’re a f *cking mentally deprived idiot!”

Ugh. Just … ugh. RadarOnline has made this new recording available on their site HERE. Should you choose to listen to it be warned, it contains very NSFW and IMHO very upsetting language. At this point, I think many of us have been desensitized to this level of verbal abuse from Gibson because it seems very clear that this is just the way he chooses to talk to the mother of his child when he thinks no one is listening. The level of hatred and violent language makes it very easy to believe Oksana’s claims that he physically abused her as well. It horrifies me to think that any anyone would be subjected to this level of abuse … I can’t even imagine what sorts of things Gibson says or does when he’s not ranting on the phone like a lunatic … it seems difficult to imagine that he would be able to control himself physically if he started to verbally assault her in this way in person. I believe this recording will be the last one to be released … but, for me, the irreparable damage was done with the first recording. It is my hope that each of the 3 recordings will serve to ensure that Mel Gibson never works in show-business again. But that is my personal belief … whether he makes movies again is beside the point. I know that I will never, ever support any of his projects. And I pray that Oksana and their baby daughter Lucia are kept safe from Gibson’s abusive anger.


  • Bubblegum

    This makes me so sad and sick to my stomach. What makes me even MORE sick is that all over the web people are saying “How do we know she didn’t provoke him beforehand to get that mad?”

    He is a grown man. He should be able to know when he is that level of angry and HANG UP THE PHONE and end the conversation. We all get heated and angry at people, but NO ONE should ever be able to used anger or “being provoked” as a reason to talk that way to ANYONE. No matter how mad I am I NEVER talk to people that way, even in private. And she was VERY calm during the recording. If that wasn’t the usual case, he would have said “Why are you being so quiet?”.

    • @Bubblegum — I’m always shocked at how quickly people try to attack the victim in these situations. Some people always want to believe that the victim asked for the abuse they got. It’s so sick :(

  • Jeff

    I’m glad she stood up to him in this recording. She’s so passive in the other ones.

  • Meghan

    He has some serious mental problems. He really needs some major medication.

  • richard s

    well, Whoopi says he is not racist. I think that this may be the incoherent ramblings of an alcoholic. His demons have got the best of him it seems. Very sad:(

  • Denise

    I too am sickened when people try to blame the victim, as if she or he “asked for it”. I remember when the whole Rihanna incident occurred, some people were saying, “well, what did she do to get him so mad” and that is terrible. Anyway, Mel obviously needs help, but that is still no excuse for his violent behavior.

  • grace

    i wonder what he was like with his ex wife…

  • nancy

    This whole thing makes me wonder how he talked to his former wife and mother for his first 10 kids. Mel needs some friends or family to step in and 5150 him to rehab.

  • truthyisalways

    @ grace, I too find myself curious about his professional and personal life in over the many years of his career. Did his family shield this side of him from the public or did his marriage fall apart because this kind of insanity started? Haven’t read anything that is trying to answer this question.

  • Courtney

    I think it is sick that yesteday on facebook people were defending him saying “Racism is funny” or “its free speech. if you have a problem don’t listen.” No, we have to listen, it is not okay to talk to people like this no matter IF we have the right too.

  • Isabelle

    @Trent “It horrifies me to think that any anyone would be subjected to this level of abuse … ”

    But it happens. Everyday. It happens all around us, to friends, family members, neighbours, people you cross in the street…Spousal abuse or whatever you choose to name it, is way more common than we think.

    Now we have a blatant example in front of us, we also had Charlie Sheen, but let’s have a thought every now and then for those who are not interesting enough to appear on radaronline or whatever.

    On another note, I would really like what the previous Ms Gibson would have to say about all this.

  • SantaBarbaraBabe

    It becomes more apparent with each tape being “leaked” that Mel Gibson needs serious mental help. I feel no pity for him or his arrogance. Someone needs to haul this man off to the looney bin, stat!

  • debho

    @richard s….Whoopi is an idiot. So are the other women on The View.
    Being an alcoholic does not mean you have to be racist. But I do agree that alcohol brings out the worst in people. And sadly, I think this is how he really feels about others.

  • Semi_fantastic

    Shame on both of them.

    Both of them are in the wrong. No one should ever talk to the mother of their child like that and she should have never leaked such damaging tapes about the father of her child to the media. They both are morally bankrupt and should be putting that dear little baby first.

    When Lucia is grown and hears about this she will have no parent to be proud of.

    I think Mel Gibson might be mentally ill and I really hope he gets help.

  • Manda

    I think alcohol tends to bring out the truth in some people because their inhabitions are gone. I am very surprised that Whoopi defended him with that as the excuse. Anyway, I can’t bring myself to listen to this tape. I’ve heard enough. I actually had to google the term “wetback” as I have never heard that before in my life. I never want to hear it again. I hope that this woman can get away from his control and abuse.

  • Nick

    Maybe it’s time for “The Passion Part II”

    2Co 11:13 For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ.
    2Co 11:14 And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light.
    2Co 11:15 Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.

    2Th 2:9 Even him, whose coming is after the working of Satan with all power and signs and lying wonders,
    2Th 2:10 And with all deceivableness of unrighteousness in them that perish; because they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved.
    2Th 2:11 And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie:
    2Th 2:12 That they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness.

  • PixiesBassline

    What a fucking bastard!!

  • geemo

    what a fucking loser!!! what a racist, homophobic, anti-semetic, abusive, bullying, fucking loser.

  • Mandy

    These tapes REALLY make me wonder what Robyn Gibson might have put up with for so long. What a sick bastard!

  • Prieta Linda

    I agree with the 5150 idea…its much needed. No matter what, this type of verbal abuse is NEVER acceptable…but the first place I’d take these recordings to is the police, not sell them or leak them to radaronline! Its a little fishy. Not saying she deserved it in ANY way, but if I’m scared to death of someone who’s abused me…to the cops, not to the web! Mel Gibson is done in Hollywood!

  • KR

    Regarding Whoopi Goldberg’s statement….
    You’d think the network would be a little more concientious about statements made on their show about such a critical topic. While the hosts have a right to their opinions, they also have a responsibility for the impact those statements have.

  • ks

    Agreed, KR.
    I was appalled at Whoopi’s excuses for Mel. First of all, being on a rant is no excuse for saying disgusting, offensive things. If anything, who you are under pressure says more about your character. Her claims that he can’t be racist because of the fact that he has been to her house with her kids also makes no sense. Just because someone has been inside your house doesn’t mean they aren’t prejudiced or discriminatory, which Mel has proved to be on more than one occasion.

  • Lauren

    honestly, i don’t think the guy is racist. i think he is an angry alcoholic that searches for the most hurtful and demeaning words to hurt those around him. he would use any word against anybody if he felt that it would inflict pain or cut them down a notch or two. that’s what abusive people do.

  • angie

    It’s really puzzling to me that so many people are trying to defend/excuse Mel’s behaviour. I don’t think some one who is NOT racist has access to that vocabulary even when they are extremely angry. It’s just like when a person is drunk- the alcohol doesn’t change them, it just lowers their inhibitions and lets what ever’s inside come out. Also I think Oksana released the tapes to protect herself and her daughter- I don’t know how that’ll wash in court but that’s what my spidey sense is telling me.

  • @semifantastic? – I think it was a smart thing for her to release the tapes because it let’s the world know that she and her daughter are in danger. If Nicole Simpson and Stacy Peterson had done the same thing, things might have ended up differently for them. Maybe Mel’s baby momma saw how other women who are involved with very powerful abusive men don’t get the help they need. Did’nt Nicole Simpson make repeated calls to the cops only to be ignored? ——-I think she is putting her daughter’s safety first instead of Mel’s ego……and her’s – I don’t know anyone who would be proud of getting beat up by their partner.

  • Val 2.0

    Whoopi Goldberg dated a guy who thought it was okay to perform in blackface (Ted Danson). She seems to have a different definition of “racist.”

  • Manda

    @Val – actually that was Whoopi’s idea believe it or not!

  • Lauren

    @angie – I’m not trying to defend or excuse anyone. I’m simply stating my interpretation of his behavior. You choose to see it as racist. I choose to see it as equal opportunity hatred and abuse.

  • Amanda

    @semi_fantastic: Oksana is morally bankrupt for letting the world know they shouldn’t be supporting such a misogynistic, racist asshole? She’s morally bankrupt for showing people that she’s in danger? That’s quite a ‘defend the abuser’s right to abuse in secret’ kind of mentality.

    Re: Whoopi Goldberg, I will never watch anything that idiot has a hand in ever again. First she tries to say Roman Polanksi is a good man, that not all rape is ‘real’ rape, now she’s defending racists? Fuck her.

  • jen

    well I guess now all he has to do is perform a tearful tribute to Michael Jackson and everyone will love him again

  • Anita

    This woman, Oksana is evil! Mel Gibson is obviously a bi-polar alcoholic who needs professional help. It’s very sad to see such ignorance of the public when it comes to alcoholism and mental illness.

  • Dima

    There is nothing wrong with Mel Gibson, The only mistake he made, is getting together with Russian bitch, I have a lot of friends that had similar situation happened to them too, woman like that would suck a man dry and leave him to die while she would be destroying some other man’s life. Mel should of sand her back to Russia where a woman don’t talk back to a man, if she does shell get her face caved in and will remember it for rest of her miserable life. Stay strong Mel, I support you!!!