On Thursday, singer Rihanna spoke a bit about the assault she endured at the hands of ex-boyfriend Chris Brown and then on Friday, she spoke a bit more. Last night on 20/20, Rihanna told her entire story to Diane Sawyer and the 8.2 million folks watching on TV … her story is a harrowing one … but also a brave one. Here are a few screencaps from her powerful interview and some excerpts from her 20/20 interview:

In a tremendously moving and articulate interview with 20/20, Rihanna gave her first full-length statements about her assault by Chris Brown in February. Describing the beating she suffered in a car with Brown, the singer said that when he beat her, “He had no soul in his eyes… It was almost like he had nothing to lose.” Speaking to Diane Sawyer, Rihanna said of Brown’s remorse afterward, “He’d say, ‘You hate me, don’t you?’ and I would lie and say, ‘No.’” That was a chilling moment, one among many. Sawyer showed Rihanna online videos of people — fans? — saying that she must have provoked Brown. Sawyer paraphrased their sentiments: “They say, ‘Did she bait him? Rile him?’” Rihanna said bluntly of such questions, “It’s ignorance.” Demonstrating a maturity and thoughtfulness about her experience, Rihanna noted, “With fame comes a lot of things, and the most dangerous is freedom… no boundaries.” At the same time, she said that when she’s shown the pictures of her battered face from that night, “I get very ashamed, angry… embarrassed… You start lying to yourself, blaming yourself… I didn’t want people looking at me. I felt really lonely.” She claimed never to have heard the song Brown supposedly recorded for her called “Changed Man.” When Sawyer showed her the internet apology Brown issued and asked the singer’s reaction, Rihanna said simply, “It sounds like he might be reading off a teleprompter… I don’t know if he understood the extent of what he did.” Rihanna explained the fight’s source: ”I caught him in a lie,” when she saw a text message from another woman. “I wouldn’t drop it, and he couldn’t take that.” She described their love as “dangerous… It was a bit of an obsession.” The awful pressure that is placed upon celebrities to be role models was made clear when she said, “My selfish desire for love could result in some young girl getting killed. I could not be easy with that, responsible for that.” How terrible that this woman should have to bear that weight in addition to what happened to her. That’s one of the biggest flaws of current pop culture — the notion that celebrities must set an example for others. Rihanna went so far as to say to Sawyer, “I’m glad it happened to me, because now I can help young girls when it happens to them.” Sawyer asked if she “hated” Brown. She replied, “I want him to do well, to have a good career… and to grow up.”
I cannot even express how impressed I was with Rihanna‘s interview last night … she was thoughtful, sure, honest and bold in her statements. You could tell how uncomfortable she was talking about certain aspects of her ordeal but you could also tell how confident she was that she was doing the right thing. I am so glad that ABC decided to air portions of Rihanna‘s interview over two days and one night … the wider her story is spread, the more likely that her message will reach those who desperately need to hear it. After the jump, watch Rihanna‘s entire 20/20 interview online …
It was clearly evident to me that Rihanna was being as bare-boned honest as she could be … I imagine it is not easy to talk about the horror that she endured and, yet, she boldly told her story for all the world to hear. Detractors will, once again, place blame on her at every turn — saying she instigated/deserved what she got, saying she is capitalizing on the timing of the interview — but I vehemently believe that NO person deserves to be hit, under any circumstances, EVER! Never once during her interview did she talk about her new album or did any promo for any of her endeavors. I actually yelled out loud with glee when Diane Sawyer asked Rihanna what she wanted to hear from Chris Brown and her response was, “Nothing.” IMHO, Chris Brown is scum and while I believe in redemption, I feel she will be better off to never allow him back in her life. She seems well aware that there are countless young women out there who look up to her and she wants to be the best example that she can be … having endured a brutal assault, she seems adamant that she wants to do whatever she can to offer help to others in need. I not only applaud Rihanna, I have the utmost respect for her. Again, it is my sincerest wish that her message reaches as many people as possible … mebbe her experience can help someone else save themselves from a deadly situation. Thank you Rihanna for speaking out … I’m sure there are many people out there who will benefit from your words.
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wow. seriously? y is there such a debate on this? its all celebrity gossip, and everyones oppinion. im glad she spoke. i mean the timing is whatever, she finally said something. and that was alot. i could imagine that it took alot of guts to speak out and publicly. she didnt have to but she did, she seamt pretty sincere. and thats it. who cares if shes trying to promote her album. im not gonna buy just because she said something. i think even if it is about that its not the big point. it can help someone or not. it can help her or not. either way she spoke out.
@Shyguy and anyone else who thinks she should’ve spoken up ASAP. Domestic violence is a hard thing to be the victim of let alone get past that denial of “Oh, I must’ve done SOMETHING wrong for them to hurt me so bad” and it takes time for the truth to come to you. That you didn’t do anything wrong and that the person who inflicted the violence was in the wrong.
I give her major credit for sorting out her life so she can make rational statements on national television instead of coming fresh out of the heat of the moment.
I know from experience that it’s a vicious cycle and this will scar her for the rest of her life. Don’t judge her for being brave enough to share her ordeal with everyone in the hopes that other women (or men!) will stand up for themselves and NOT fall victim to this horrid crime.
“I wouldn’t drop it and he couldn’t take that”
That really resonates with me.
Yesterday my best friend told me what happened to her just last week. her boyfriend was drunk and tried to choke her. i know her boyfriend and he is one of the nicest guys, but it still happened. she loved him; they were together for 2 years. but when i heard about what she went through, i was disgusted. she told me that rihanna’s interview helped her realize that she couldnt be with him no matter what. she still loves him and she didnt want to, but now she realizes what she needs to do. so honestly, i dont care whether Rihanna spoke out now, even if it was to promote her album. it helped my best friend knowing she wasnt the only one.
and of course she broke up with him
i too was amazed by the honest candor displayed by riri. i like her even more. if more people could be open and honest with their feelings the world would be a better place. it does not matter when one is abused when they speak up. everything happens for a reason and in the timing it is supposed to happen.
I am incredibly impressed by how brave Rhianna has been in this interview. She has my complete respect for the way she has addressed this so candidly, and for the reasons behind her actions. I would also like to third what Monica said about the timing.. that is obviously why she hasn’t spoken about it before and why she is talking about it now, I cannot see how anybody could see an ulterior motive in her addressing this now… to say things like that belittles what she has been through and is completely disrespectful and ignorant.
Maribella, if she” wasn’t Rihanna” ?? Really?? I’m sure you realize that women, famous and non-famous, are beat up by their husbands and boyfriends everyday. Is her story any less real because “she is Rihanna”?? I don’t think this is a PR stunt; I think its a statement that she has to make so that she can move on with her life and her career. People and the press have been talking about this since it happened 9 months ago, and if she doesn’t get out in front of the story now it will just continue to dog her. She said herself that five years from now, she doesn’t want to be thought of as “the one that go beat up by Chris Brown”. And if it gets her publicity, so what! If you want to blame someone for the publicity, blame Chris Brown. If he hadn’t beat the h*ll out of her, none of this would be happening.
While I commend Rihanna for speaking out about her abuse, I have to question the timing. I whole-heartedly agree with the previous posters who have said that she and other abuse survivors should be able to talk about it whenever they feel comfortable with talking about it. HOWEVER, I find it … interesting that she would choose now to talk about it, and she just happens to be releasing a new album and a new single. Again, I’m not saying she shouldn’t talk about it, I just think the timing of it all is really questionable.
@Sarah Jane — What is questionable about the timing? Now that the media is focused on her professionally, she is using the platform to talk about domestic abuse. Sounds like very good timing to me.