Comments on: Chris Brown Jet Skis His Cares Away In Miami, FL

By: kk

kk — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 16:19:19 +0000

what’s diddy’s stake in this that he has allowed them to ‘reconcile’ at his place?

By: Spice

Spice — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 14:33:48 +0000

Thought this would happened. As I had mentioned before, having gone through a very similar situation myself….before I actually had it happen to me, the words out of my mouth were “If my boyfriend ever hits me, that’s it, it’s over and I’d be sure he’d going to jail.”

Surprisingly, after I actually had it happen to me, I didn’t feel that way at all. I’m not crazy, but that must mean that it’s a weird thing that happens when you actually go through it. On one hand you have this man who you love and have all this time together with, you’re best friend. On the other, you have some psycho who came out and hurt you. It’s like the brain doesn’t connect the two.

My situation was bad enough that he got locked up for a while and I didn’t even feel like pressing charges. I actually wished it would just go away like it never happened and I promise you that is totally oppostive of who I’ve ever been.

Luckily for me, the time he spent in jail kept us apart, the support of my family and friends, and I decided to go get counceling to try and figure why in the world I was not mad that this man but rather felt guilty myself for what happened. I learned a lot and did manage to completely leave the sitaution…but that is because of the help that I got. If left to my own devices at the time, I probably would have gone back.

She may not be getting the support she needs to truly grasp what this means. It’s very hard mentally to wrap your head around the fact that your lover and best friend just tried to kill you or hurt you. It’s like the brain doesn’t get it for a while.

By: Melinda

Melinda — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 06:09:18 +0000

I heard she got pregnant.

By: AshLey

AshLey — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 02:00:30 +0000

Ugh, that’s just too bad….I had a feeling she’d go back. I wish she would’ve taken this opportunity and used it as good as she could have, by being a strong woman role-model for younger girls in relationships like this…That’s too bad. :(

By: MeGs

MeGs — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 00:19:46 +0000

Sometimes something like this happens to make you look at yourselves and re-evaluate, and maybe change for the better. Only they know what really happened that night, and what led to Rihannas injuries so I’m not going to jude if thats her decision.

By: mary

mary — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 23:14:27 +0000

well I for one only know that a guy really loves me and is worth my time if he beats me silly once and a while.
poor riri…

By: ashley

ashley — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 20:04:57 +0000

Ike Turner
OJ Simspon
Chris Brown

…let’s hope she gets out of all of this like Tina did and not end up like Nicole.

By: Melissa

Melissa — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 19:01:32 +0000

Okay…so there is two possible explanations to this story:
a) we really dont know ANYTHING about the situation at hand
b) she is completely head over heels in love with the guy so whatever he does is deemed acceptable in her mind.

I just hope that it is scenerio “a” and something else excuses her going back to him. I have younger sisters who love Rihanna, and she is a role model to many more young girls as well. If he really did attack her, and she has really been battered by him, it is not only a bad reflection on herself, but it will in turn affect her own personal image and career advancements in the future.

By: Janelle

Janelle — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 18:12:36 +0000

since all this happened, i guess they can’t use the ‘we’re just friends’ excuse anymore.

By: Kristen

Kristen — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 18:12:14 +0000

This boys arrogance is disgusting. Yep Ri Ri that is your man. You must be soo happy, until the next time his fist hits your face. Fine example you are setting for your young fans.

By: lis

lis — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 17:50:28 +0000

She can do MUCH better. He needs to not be in a relationship for awhile and work on his problems. Hopefully this relationship will end before she gets beat up again.

By: Betsy

Betsy — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 17:28:38 +0000

Even though no one knows exactly what happened, its obvious that SOMETHING happened and it sends a terrible message to her fans, especially younger girls, who will think that it’s ok to stay with a guy who beats you or that’s normal. If Rhianna doesn’t leave then why would some poor, unconfident person leave? It completely sends the wrong message, I am disappointed in her. And her father for being so supportive.

By: Selina

Selina — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 17:19:39 +0000

To those of you who keep saying the picture of Rihanna was probably fake or doctored, TMZ paid the leak at the police $62,500 for that picture.
You wouldn’t pay that much for something unless you knew it was real.

By: MissJ

MissJ — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 15:20:44 +0000

I think what people should realize is that there are unfortunately a lot of couples out there who get back together after physical altercations. Maybe now everyone will start investing more time in talking about these issues again.
Didn’t this happen with Josh Brolin and Diane Lane?

By: Katie

Katie — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 15:13:09 +0000

I think this is so, so sad. Forget the whole “not being a role model to girls”- she is more than a role model, she is a HUMAN. Let’s take a step back from the celebrity and look at the real person.
I wished she learned to love herself a bit more and keep people like him out of her life. :(

By: Chella

Chella — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 14:42:54 +0000

Trent I totally agree with your comment @ P. Iam also upset that she took him back so soon I would have waited to make sure he was really getting some help!!;(

By: Nat

Nat — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 09:10:14 +0000

I completely agree with verodemort. If Rihanna ever wears a shirt that covers her arms,people will immediately think Chris hit her. The same with wearing sunglasses,they’ll think she’s hiding a black eye.
Poor girl. Rumors will be sparked at every angle for them,until finally,they decide to break it off. Sad.

By: Verodemort

Verodemort — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:58:11 +0000

I feel so bad for baby girl, thinking that abuse =’s love. Poor thang. Of course, its none of our business, but still, I think its a damn shame. If they were fighting rough before, its not going to change, but that is a lesson they have to figure out on their own. Can you imagine the type of scrutiny they will be under now, should they step out with each other at events? Its going to be pandemonium! Every outfit she wears, any dark makeup, is all going to spark questions and undue (or due) worry. As if they don’t live under a microscope already! Sad, sad, sad.

By: JohnnyFilm

JohnnyFilm — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:35:46 +0000

Some of these comments justifying Chris Brown’s actions are disheartening.

Unless RiRi raped Brown’s mother and beat the living shit out of her, I really can’t think of even one good reason for Brown to physically assault RiRi in such a manner.

By: Kiki

Kiki — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 08:01:51 +0000

Puh-Leeeeze….. I always knew RiRi would go back to him. Most women that are beaten by their BFs do. Nothing new, people. Although she is famous she is still a dumb female

By: Phili

Phili — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 07:56:37 +0000

Seeing him all smiley like that while he’s under investigation for domestic violence that only transpired three weeks ago literally makes me sick to my stomach.

I don’t judge Rihanna at all for going back to him, because I just think that would be a shitty approach to take, but I definitely do not think she should have. It’s almost guaranteed that he’ll go after her again and she could get REALLY badly hurt next time.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 07:28:18 +0000

It is what it is I guess. I mean clearly something transpired that night in the car. She had those awful brusies and such and the police and DA want to do something about it so at the very least he hit her. As to what really happened between them we will probably never know. Do I think it’s a good idea to go on vacay with the guy who beat you up? Hell no! I’d tell him where to go shove it and then go do my thing but it’s her life and her decision good or bad. I’m not going to boycott either of them for their decisions because as musicians I appreciate and enjoy their talents. I would hope that she would stand up for herself and tell him to leave her alone but it’s like Tina said “what’s love got to do with it”

Oh and CLEARLY she has not seen that Ike and Tina movie… Tina Turner should call Rihanna and explain reality to her.

By: Rachel

Rachel — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 05:48:26 +0000

Oh well. They deserve eachother. Don’t care for either one.

By: laura

laura — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 05:19:31 +0000

@Deb
Just my $.02 but, I don’t think Rihanna’s family is truly supportive of her reunion w/ Chris. How could they be? I think they are putting on a brave face and doing their best to not alienate their daughter. They wont be able to help her if they are estranged from her. And we all know it is very likely she is going to need their help because Chris is not going to change. Most abusers don’t….: (

By: Neptune

Neptune — Sun, 01 Mar 2009 05:11:52 +0000

It is true that Battered Women’s Syndrome is real, and many people suffer from it. But this isn’t Sally and Bob from down the road, this is a woman who has enormous influence over teens. She chose her career, and she should understand that her decisions send a message.

It’s the same as saying a serial killer has schizophrenia, and then letting him continue on because, oops, hes got a mental disorder.