Comments on: Hayden Panettiere & Milo Ventimiglia Do Bora Bora

By: unknown

unknown — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 18:10:24 +0000

Allie, cant чou see, чour not welcome, no haters are! This ovbiouslч shows that this is a site fro good comments, whч the hell search for halo if чou dont like them. Seriouslч, чou dont know what its like to be in their shoes. You cant exactlч tell them how to live their life. And this mileч and her boчfriend thing, leave that too – legal, чou dont get it, im not judging mileч i hope she happч but she is 16 he is 20 shes a teenager, hes an adult, i dont know what could happen. Neither do чou so stop judging haчden and milo seriouslч how old arre чou 12?? ! Grow up! And just think about Milo if he were reading this or haчden. . Theч are 2 legal adults! And if чou dont like it! Thats чour problem.

By: Yeli

Yeli — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 17:37:10 +0000

To: all that judge Halo due to age or otherwise,

Just shut up already!!! I don’t see you guys in Hayden’s shoes or in Milo’s for that matter you don’t know the bond that probably exsists between them therefore you have no right to judge it. BTW stop being so rough on Milo he seems to really care for her. Stop making him out to be the predator, the perv, the creep he can’t help who he falls for and he shouldn’t have to. Just let it go and let both of them live their lives as they choose.

By: TandSara

TandSara — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:40:57 +0000

*experienced

p.s. allie are you 13?

By: TandSara

TandSara — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 06:36:51 +0000

Poor trent, there are too many kids coming here reading your blog, are middle schoolers allowed here? okay just me( I know you love him trent) but I don’t get the supposed hotness of this milo guy, Im not seeing it. I think people should just let the relationship run it’s course, they may stay together , they may not, but my true and honest guess is that hayden will be the one to be the dumper, not the dumpee. Hayden is very young and less experiences, Im sure they have a good relationship and it will be a learning experience when they break up, her star can rise and probably will, and his will decline in time, that’s just what happens, as she rises she’ll meet other stars, other men will take interest, nature of the beast in hollywood, don’t expect it to end in marriage, but I have a feeling they are both nice people.

By: gah!!!

gah!!! — Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:47:42 +0000

IRREGARDLESS IS NOT A WORD!

By: ThatGirl

ThatGirl — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 01:06:24 +0000

I think the issue is that grown, adult men are looking at teenage girls in a sexual way, and may be acting on it (“may” in Miley’s case). That’s how Miley/Justin & Hayden/Milo’s situations are related – whether they are 12 years apart in age or 4 years apart, these are adults interested in teenagers.

My 17 year old cousin “waited” to date her 30 year old boyfriend and now 3 years later, they have a kid, then got married. I didn’t and still don’t understand what she would want with a man 13 years older, and he’d want with her. How would they have anything in common, since they basically grew up in different decades, eras? I think of it as, “At 17, would this guy have dated a my 4 year old cousin?” Or when he was 25, would he have given a second look to a 13 year old? Well, probably!!! Cause at 30, he thought it was fine to date a highschool senior.

I still think the whole adult/teenage thing is creepy but I guess it works for the people involved.

By: Hannah

Hannah — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 23:27:18 +0000

Its not wrong if the are not having sex. Since we don’t know if they are or not the relationship is perfectly legal and normal. I don’t like Miley and Justin but their age difference makes more sense than Hayden and Milo.

We shouldn’t discriminate against anybodys relationship if everything is legal, and I would have thought people in this blog would understand that more than people. But it just goes to show you how close minded people can be even when they preach the opposite.

By: Alex

Alex — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 21:21:15 +0000

@ Irma….yes.

By: Irma

Irma — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 20:53:57 +0000

so since i just turned 18, it’s okay for me to date my 28 year old friend?

By: Davey

Davey — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 20:22:07 +0000

You misunderstand Allie. The Miley/model boyfriend (sorry I don’t know his name) has legal implications the same way that a Hayden/Stephen relationship did. It’s not looked at more harshly because she’s Miley. Notice I didn’t call their relationship creepy or judge the type of people they are. I said it was wrong in that a legal adult is dating someone the law doesn’t deem an adult. Basically, All I’m saying is if he’s caught with his wee wee in her woo hoo he’s in trouble. However the pictures are of Milo and Hayden: two legal adults. Not Miley and dude.

By: Allie

Allie — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:44:37 +0000

Take a chill pill Trent, I wasn’t even talking to you. I was talking to mulitiple people. Someone said they don’t want to judge a relationship looking on from the outside…. but then turned around and judged Miley for DATING, because we do NOT know for a fact that they are sleeping together, a 20 year old. Secondly, didn’t you used to think Stephen and Hayden were cute as a couple? I think I recall seeing that on this site, and recall seeing positive remarks from commenters. Now, how come that illegal relationship is cute and Miley & Justin not? It’s hypocritical! And if Miley were to turn 18 tomorrow and start dating a 30 year old, ALL HELL WOULD break loose. That’s all I have to say about that…. :)

By: a

Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:21:47 +0000

@trent.

Agreed that the law does not perfectly conform with morality. My argument was that some things that are illegal are not wrong. And some things that are wrong are not illegal. The legal status of something changes over time and place. Sex before marriage is illegal in some parts of the world. Homosexual sex is illegal in some parts of the world — in many parts of the US up until about 20 years ago. But that is not an argument as to why either is wrong.

I don’t think it is wrong for 16 year old girls to date. In all cases, the state of CA does, whether it is another 16 year old guy, or a 19 or 20 year old guy, both are comitting rape… unless they are married to the girl, in which case it would be fine. You see… the law is dumb. That is my point. This is the same law that says it is not rape even if a husband forces himself upon his wife. You see? Dumb law.

On the Miley/Justin question that came up… again… on this topic of a couple (Halo) that I really like… I don’t thik it is wrong. When I was 17 the girl I was hanging out with was 27; I didn’t think t was wrong then, I don’t think it was wrong now. My argument is that the law *ought to* be crafted to stay out of as many consensual relationships as humanly possible while still protecting those who need protecting. Miley, from what I can tell, needs no protection from Justin. (double meaning not intended.)

By: casalolo

casalolo — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 17:07:53 +0000

milo is so Fing hot.

By: It's Trent, Bitch!

It's Trent, Bitch! — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:56:10 +0000

@a – I’m not sure why you’re arguing legalities. The law does not discriminate between the 364th day and the 365th day … illegal is illegal irregardless of morality.

By: a

Sun, 04 Jan 2009 16:16:32 +0000

Trent… so it is wrong for a 17 year old to date an 18 year old? What if it is 17 and 364 days and 18 and 1 day? What if they cross over into any other free country in the world –everywhere else it is 16 or less — or one of the 45+ US states where 16/20 is not illegal. It suddenly becomes moral?

I don’t care about Miley and Justin at all, but I don’t think their relationship is wierd or wrong. Age of consent laws rightly exist to protect people who are unable to formulate consent. They do not exist to dictate the sexual morality of genuinely consensual relationships. I don’t think there can be debate as to whether Miley/Justin is consensual.

“It is wrong because it is illegal” ought to be a very disturbing argument to anyone concerned with civil rights.

*ANYWAY* back to Halo…

I love Halo as a couple bcause they look really happy together and seem genuinely to care for one another. They seem to have real smiles on their faces when around one another… not just posing for the cameras.

By: It's Trent, Bitch!

It's Trent, Bitch! — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 14:11:16 +0000

@Allie – first off, no one is judging anything — at least, I’m not. second, no it is never alright for an underage person to date an adult — so your 15 dating an 18 year old scenario is just as wrong (ie. illegal) as a 16 year old dating a 20 year old. An 18 or 19 year old is of age and can date whomever they choose.

By: Allie

Allie — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 13:33:34 +0000

So, it was alright when a then 15 year old Hayden was dating a then “grown ass man” 18 year old Stephen?!?!?! But, Miley at the age of 16, can’t date a 20 year old?! It makes no sense. She broke up with Stephen literally RIGHT after she turned 18, and started dating Milo. Yes, Hayden is NOW 19. Milo is NOW 31. If you can’t judge Halo’s relationship looking on from the outside, don’t you find it unfair to judge Miley’s from the outside?!?! She’s doing the same thing as dear Hayden!! Hayden has done it twice, and this time with a 12 year age gap, and it’s “soooo cuuuute.” Eww.

By: Rebecca

Rebecca — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 09:43:35 +0000

I thought he and alexis bledel were a better match :(

By: Davey

Davey — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:45:37 +0000

Just like turning 18 (which is the age she was when they started dating; she’s 19 now) doesn’t automatically make you mature it also doesn’t automatically make her too immature to be in the relationship. I don’t know Hayden and I don’t know her life experiences and I also don’t now how mature she is. I can only see it from the outside looking in: they look happy. I’m not going to call it creepy because I don’t know how their relationship works. All I know is that it is legal and they look cute together.

The Miley relationship is wrong, not because the age difference but because if they were to enjoy every aspect of a relationship it would land him in jail. The same won’t happen to Milo, see the difference?

By: Cherrylips

Cherrylips — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:03:14 +0000

HAYDEN IS 19

By: Hannah

Hannah — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 05:46:37 +0000

Hayden might be an adult, but barely. There is not much difference between a 16 year old and an 18 year old (keep in mind the article said they’ve been together a year more if you count sept 2007). People don’t magically get more mature and change because the turn 18. T
Miley is 16 and as long as she doesn’t sleep with the guy isn’t breaking any rules. so why is their 4 year age gap creep and wrong and this 12 year one is cute and loveable?

By: Davey

Davey — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 05:24:56 +0000

The difference between Miley and her guy and Hayden and Milo is that Halo’s relationship is one between two adults.

I find them cute together so I obviously don’t see anything wrong with their relationship. I can’t judge on their age difference. Here’s my view on things: If they’re in love and it doesn’t hurt anyone then why the hang ups? Let people be in love and be happy.

By: m

Sun, 04 Jan 2009 05:04:28 +0000

OK, I know Hayden’s technically (barely) a legal adult at 18, and she is a cute girl and all, but I’m totally creeped out by the fact that Milo was waiting for her to turn 18 and they all of a sudden are dating. True she’s legal, but the age difference is pretty gross. An 18 year old is still a baby! I’m 29 and wouldn’t even date a 23 year old because he’d be too immature for me.

By: La Princesa

La Princesa — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:15:21 +0000

Wow, she has some hips and thighs on her! I’m SOOOOOO happy to see that!!!!!!! Yay!!!! :) :) :) :) :)

And that second picture, Milo is looking a bit John Mayerish…I likes!

By: Cherrylips

Cherrylips — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 01:30:20 +0000

Miley is a child dating a grown ass man. Hayden is an adult she’s 19 by the way dating an older man. That’s the difference and if u can’t see that then something is wrong with chu